A couple of days ago I ended up moving in with my girlfriend.
We had been planning to wait out on making this move since we are still young and don’t know where we are going to be once we graduate, but thanks to my roommate getting kicked out of school and moving back home I had no choice but to find another place to live.
Prior to moving in with my girlfriend I had a few ideas of what it would be like living with her, but so far all of those ideas have been false. For starters I thought that she would be a very clean person who prioritized a clean and healthy home. I quickly found out that she wasn’t this way when I asked her the last time she had the HVAC system serviced by an reputable HVAC contractor and she told me that it had been months. I ended up reaching out to an HVAC contractor that ended up finding tons of mildew, dirt, and pollen trapped within the old air filters and the HVAC unit itself. On top of all of this she isn’t even able to keep her dishes washed or clean up after herself. Now please bear in mind that it has only been five or six days since I moved in and it is already this bad, I only think that things will get worse. I guess this is why my mom and dad always told me never to move in with someone before we are ready, but now that the move has already been made I am not sure what I am going to do.