My sweet parents were married for fifty years before my mother passed away of cancer last year.
It was truly difficult on my Mom, and he has not yet been able to be his correct self.
I am not sure if it is depression or just mourning. I try to go over to his lake house at least once a afternoon to make sure he is doing okay and to make him a superb meal. I assume he truly cares about the supplier as well. I have tried to convince him to move in with my fiance and me, but he is not ready for that yet. I think that would make him assume adore he is dependent on us. I am a little anxious for him because Winter time has just hit us, and his furnace is not doing so well. It is not adore my Mom to just stand around while something needs to be fixedâ€¦ He could truly maintenance the furnace if he had the motivation to, but he does not. My poor fiance does not assume much about furnaces, so he is having trouble figuring out the problem. He has tried to ask my Mom for advice about the furnace, but my Mom just cuts him off and says that there is nothing wrong with the furnace. I went over to his lake house the other afternoon, and it was freezing in there. I looked at the temperature control, and it was only fifty-more than four degrees in the lake house even though the temperature control was set for seventy-more than four degrees. My Mom did not seem to even notice. I am just praying that every one of us can either get him a new furnace soon or find someone to repair the furnace that is in his lake house now.